In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
Today the Orthodox Church remembers how the evil Herodias murdered the great prophet of God, John the Forerunner. As the Holy Gospel tells us, Herod King of the Jews took to himself his brother Phillip’s wife Herodias, who had a daughter, Salome. St. John the Baptist rebuked Herod for this unlawful cohabitation. Evil Herodias harbored a grudge against God’s prophet, and wishing to kill him, influenced Herod so that he would put the Forerunner in prison. And then came an opportunity to destroy the man of God.
The king held a feast, and Herodias’s daughter Salome entered and danced for the guests. Salome’s dancing pleased Herod and he, drunk, swore to give her anything she asks, even half his kingdom. Salome took counsel with her mother, who instructed her to ask for the head of John the Baptist. This request saddened the king, but for the sake of the oath he fulfilled it. John was beheaded with a sword. Herodias had done her evil deed.
Evil Herodias lives even now in the heart of every woman—this is satan, who lures the woman into doing what God has not given to her: to rule over her husband.
Even virtuous women have the inclination to rule, but they struggle against this vice. Those who have no husband also want to rule, either over their families, or over their neighbors. Much evil has been wrought on earth by this satanic ruling over husbands on the part of women. All of sacred history is filled with it, and in fact the entire history of the world.
Thus, evil Jezebel continually persecuted and pursued the holy prophet of God Elias for his telling the truth. Ahab was not a bad king, but his wife Jezebel wielded such strong influence over him that she turned him away from the true God, and he turned the whole nation away, drawing them into idolatry.
Samson loved his wife, and she loved him; nevertheless she betrayed him to death.
“It’s better to live with an asp—the most dangerous snake—than to live with an evil wife”, says the old Russian proverb. And there is another Russian saying: “Wherever a wife doesn’t manage, there goes satan.” Such evil, cunning wives mostly influence corrupt husbands, as Herodias did Herod, because he was a lover of money, a fornicator, and a drunkard. They take advantage of their husband’s weakness and keep them “under their heels”.
A woman’s urge to rule a country is madness. Even Catherine the Great, the wisest of all tsarinas, dropped her hands when a difficult military situation arose. The great Russian military commander Suvorov came to her and crowed like a rooster, saying that a hen is not a bird, and a woman is not a man. Women, you should not be offended at this because a woman is not a whole but rather part of a whole. A part cannot be the head. For example, the eyes remain eyes, the arms remain arms, and the legs remain legs. These parts, as well as other parts of the body, cannot be the head. A woman is a part, and not a head. The head is the husband.
In the Gospel it is written that the Lord fed five thousand in the wilderness, besides women and children (Mt. 14:21). The wife should know why she was created, and know her appointed duty. She is her husband’s helpmate; she must raise the children in the fear of God. Those Christian women who understand this duty are good mothers, sisters, and wives. And blessed are they who accept this and do not try to do what was not given to them by God—to be the head over their husbands.
If a husband has such infirmities as drunkenness, the wife must forgive her husband this weakness, because she herself is not without weaknesses. No matter what husband, he is nevertheless the head of the household. He is the master of the house.
The apostle Paul writes in his epistle to the Corinthians that the wife should be silent in God’s temple; that is, she should not teach in God’s temple. She should be silent at home as well, for the head of the home is her husband—and she should ask him to explain what she doesn’t understand.
Let’s take a look at what happened to Herod, Herodias, and Salome after this terrible, evil deed. They were severely punished by God. The Roman emperor sent them into exile, where they lived out their lives in poverty and dishonor. Herodias’s daughter Salome was walking along a frozen river when the ice cracked, and she danced, flailing her legs underwater while her head was sliced off by the ice. Her severed head was brought to her mother, Herodias, and Herod.
The head of our Christian community is the priests, who lead wives and children to the Kingdom of God and continually teach that we must walk to the Kingdom of God on the path of humility. But amongst our Christian wives there are many evil Herodiases who do not accept the teachings of the priests, but want instead to teach them. However, no matter what kind of man the priest is, he is God’s servant, vested with authority from on high.
I receive stacks of letters from angry women Christians, who want to teach us priests and even threaten us: “If you don’t do what I want I’ll go and complain to the higher ups.” At first I read these letters, and then I began to recognize them by the handwriting; and knowing that there is nothing intelligent in them, only dirt and stupidity, I started throwing them into the wood stove without reading them. And these Herodiases are standing here in our church!
Every monastery has its own typicon, to which we must submit. But some women, both pilgrimesses and locals, want to set up their own order. We serve the brothers’ moleben in the morning, which only the brothers are allowed to attend. But we priests, out of Christian love, allow others to be present at this moleben. But how do these allowed pilgrims behave themselves? They run past the brothers to venerate even the miracle-working icon of the Mother of God and the relics of St. Cornelius, walk around on the solea, kiss all the icons on the iconostasis in the Dormition Church, and walk in places where no one but a priest is allowed to step foot. Brothers also sometimes violate the order, and the order should be this: First the abbot of the monastery venerates the miracle-working icon, then the brothers, and only then the parishioners. We sometimes act harshly by holding back the disorderly, but it doesn’t help—and they dislike us for it.
Christian wives! In order to receive salvation you have to listen only to Orthodox priests, and not to yourselves or someone on the side—especially people in black clothing who often teach others but do not correct themselves. If you don’t understand this, come and ask us in simplicity of soul: “Why are you so harsh?” or something else, and we will explain.
So, let’s be humble, cut off all pride and the desire to rule, and then we will be saved with God’s help. Amen.